The Erotic Blueprints™, created by Jaiya, are a map of arousal that reveals your specific erotic language of pleasure and turn-on. Learning this language gives us a greater ability to express what turns us on and what turns us off. For partners and solo individuals alike, understanding and mastering the blueprints help to open up the greatest pathways to arousal and pleasure by breaking us out of ruts and habitual ways of relating. We are able to really understand why we want what we want, how to ask for what we want, how to give our partners what they want, and how to bring this juicy creative dance into all aspects of our relationship in and out the bedroom. The blueprints are like different colors in an artist's palette and using them to decorate our lives brings excitement, joy, creativity, and enjoyment back into our sex lives and beyond. Most importantly, getting to know our unique Core Erotic Blueprint™ helps us feel seen in our relationships with partners and even enhances our self-pleasure practice because it deepens our understanding of what really lights us up.
What clients are saying:
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"Before doing the Erotic Blueprint coaching with Zhenya, I had recently moved out of my long-term partner’s house, we were still together but I needed space. I felt lost and angry and did not desire sex at all. I felt broken, I felt that the traumas I’d faced in my past meant that I’d never had nor would have good “real” sex or connection. I had no idea how to express what I wanted, how to ask for it, and I really didn’t know what pleasure felt like in my body or how to receive it. I didn’t understand or feel that I deserved consent or how to navigate it, especially for myself. I was so in my head and my body was completely checked out. Sex was so focused on orgasm and penetration that I had no idea that there were any other ways for me to experience it, to feel pleasure. I had a ton of dysphoria around my body, my gender, my orientation and I had no language to communicate any of this with my partners. And forget about boundaries, I didn’t have any, I was too afraid to set them once I even knew I could have them. All of this spiraled into a complete loss of self and a shut-off from my authenticity.
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Working through the course was nothing short of an eye-opening, mind-blowing step into true embodiment. It opened up limitless avenues for me to explore and gave me permission to be exactly who I am as a sexual being and not just some idea of what society told me was sexual. I learned that creating a container, having boundaries, and slowing everything way down was essential for me to be able to open up to my specific flavor of pleasure. I learned that I am in no way (and never was) broken or “unhealable”. And the most important eye-opener was learning how to really “feed” my body, my pleasure, and my Blueprints, and that pleasure and sex wasn’t something that just happens at night in a bedroom but something that could expand into every moment of my life, no matter how mundane.
Now, sex and achieving orgasm isn’t such a pressure-charged goal but just one way of many, that I can experience pleasure. Pleasure became a manifestation of my empowerment, and my voice and body and a vehicle. I now have a language, both verbal and non-verbal, to communicate my needs, desires, and limits to my partners, in and out of the bedroom. I have boundaries and enjoy them, and I know their worth in being a support structure for my health and well-being. And most of all, I know that this is just the tip of the iceberg for all that Erotic Blueprints, Zhenya’s coaching, and the realm of human sexuality encompasses. I have never felt so eager, excited, and soothed by knowing that my exploration has only just begun to the endless ways I can spend the rest of my days filling my life with pleasure.
All my gratitude to Zhenya, Jaiya, Ian, and the Erotic Blueprint Team and Community, and to myself for having the courage and vulnerability to ask for more. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Now, sex and achieving orgasm isn’t such a pressure-charged goal but just one way of many, that I can experience pleasure. Pleasure became a manifestation of my empowerment, and my voice and body and a vehicle. I now have a language, both verbal and non-verbal, to communicate my needs, desires, and limits to my partners, in and out of the bedroom. I have boundaries and enjoy them, and I know their worth in being a support structure for my health and well-being. And most of all, I know that this is just the tip of the iceberg for all that Erotic Blueprints, Zhenya’s coaching, and the realm of human sexuality encompasses. I have never felt so eager, excited, and soothed by knowing that my exploration has only just begun to the endless ways I can spend the rest of my days filling my life with pleasure.
All my gratitude to Zhenya, Jaiya, Ian, and the Erotic Blueprint Team and Community, and to myself for having the courage and vulnerability to ask for more. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
